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Thursday, December 4, 2014

#147 - Addison's Crisis Scare

This Thanksgiving I was making the trip into Houston by myself since my husband was having to work. The excitement over the pending trip to my Uncle and Aunt's new home in a beautiful part of Houston was thrilling because it was also their home-warming party.

The trip takes over one hour, one way, mostly down Highway 59. It's actually a pleasant trip.

However, the past few months have been very challenging due to massive amounts of blood in my urine and lots of testing to figure out what is causing the bleeding. Since my father had bladder cancer, frankly, I was scared of it being cancer. I think this fear or thought in the back of the mind is natural for any child of a parent who has battled cancer or died from cancer that is found to be "genetic."

So, I have gone through testing during the past few weeks that range from ultrasounds, bloodwork, a CTscan with and without contrast, along with the procedure of bladder scoping.

A diagnosis I got about a year ago, and that I had hoped would somehow find "healing," was that my uterus has become so incredibly enlarged that it is literally "smothering" my bladder and grating against it, injuring it. Additionally, it is causing pressure against my lower spine, which is one of the most painful elements to this problem. Then, on some days, I suddenly have serious vaginal bleeding with huge clots that are very painful to pass because the uterus is not doing well; this is not a "normal" menstrual cycle, but further sign of things going wrong.

I have been on Depo-Provera injection for quite some time, which has kept the cycles away and that is good because I am in extreme agony with enough blood loss to create anemia during a "normal" cycle. Endometriosis has also been a life-long condition that causes tremendous suffering and has aggravated this situation.

Needless to say, between the bladder reacting as if sandpaper is rubbing against it, the ureters being stretched and contorted outward as if they are rubber bands pulled to their limits and the other internal pressure creating abnormal consequences, I am in considerable pain, especially after I am on my feet too much or moving around too much.

In spite of the pain, I still traveled a few weeks ago to be with my youngest daughter, Stefanie, as she was inducted into an Honor Society for her Master's Degree that she's almost completed. Even after that trip, my situation went further downhill and my urine became full of blood, all day, every day.


So, in an attempt to get in control of the pain, lately, I have been "resting" as much as possible, and this is also what the surgeon ordered because a horrible nightmare can occur to make this bad situation worse. My doctor said my bladder is actually in danger of prolapsing through the vagina from the intense pressure of the uterus bearing down upon it.

Whaaaaa?????

Well, I am 46 years old and don't relish the prospect of "Hey, my bladder is coming out of my vagina" kind of moment. So, the Urologist sent me directly to a highly recommended OB/GYN who confirmed that my uterus is now equal to the size of a four month pregnancy with it being full of tumors, a minimum of three tumors, believed to be fibroid. The tumors are very large...one on the left side of my uterus is so large that it can be felt simply by pressing upon my abdomen. My entire uterus can be felt with bare hands as it explores the abdominal swelling. As I lie down, you can see the swollen uterus and the lopsided swelling on the left...but this is not like the days when I was pregnant with my babies...this is mentally and emotionally disturbing as well as physically painful.

For those who don't know about this stuff, a woman can often have their uterus removed during surgery, through the vagina, to cause less bodily damage. However, I was told that the uterus is so large that this kind of surgery is no longer possible.

That is pretty serious for me because I already went through a supposed simplistic gallbladder removal in 2009 that led to massive complications...my 10th rib needed to then be removed to surgically access a large mass of scar tissue that was the size of a softball due to the gallbladder removal. Then, we soon realized that the abdominal wall did not stay surgically closed from the rib removal, so a third surgery was needed to keep my guts inside my abdominal cavity.

St. Luke's Episcopal Hospital in Houston performed a 10x16 spine-tissue transplant because the abdominal wall was not healing/closing after the rib removal incision and mass removal that left a quite large incision stapled shut, and it didn't work. Surgeons suspected steroid treatment for Addison's as the source that was hindering my surgical healing process.

But, what happens when an Addison's patient needs surgery? They need MORE steroids for stress dosing, for survival. It's a vicious cycle. These three surgeries were within about three months of each other and every subsequent surgery required that the surgeons go BACK through the SAME surgical opening, each time making it larger, more painful, and even more traumatic.

I have had several major surgeries and am so grateful to have SURVIVED each one of them, but the Addison's makes things much more dangerous. That is the harsh truth is that our Addison's condition increases the chance of complications.

After all the surgeries I have needed and that have served to keep me alive, I have found the surgery itself is not so scary, but the COMPLICATIONS can be terrifying. It is especially critical to have a surgeon who provides responsible, excellent post-operative care to make sure their surgical effort are a true success.

Now...all the backstory is to lead back up to Thanksgiving Day.

Since I have been facing major issues with pain, infection, and inflammation, I have been forced to do more stress-dosing over the past few months. My blood pressure has been extremely erratic. One day it will soar and the next day it will bottom out. Keeping it stable has been a Fairy Tale for quite a long while because of the stress, swelling and infection the enlarged uterus has caused.

So, on the Thanksgiving morning, I kissed my husband goodbye as he left for work, then I checked my blood pressure again, it was on the high end, about 140/98, so I continued to get ready for my Thanksgiving day with family in Houston...about 90 miles from our home. Packing my three pies with whipped topping, I also decided to bring along my wrist-blood-pressure cuff to monitor my blood pressure for the day, so I could take any needed medicine to keep things under control. I wasn't feeling just "right," but that has been going on for quite some time; not feeling "right" is my normal for the time being, so I just kept going on auto-pilot and soon got in the organized car to leave our home in the forest for downtown Houston.

Within ten minutes of being on the road, I began to feel severe dips in my blood pressure. I put the cuff on my wrist and began checking my blood pressure and was shocked to see it sink from 140/98 to 86/52 in less than five minutes time. I had ALREADY taken a stress dose, but I pulled out my medicine container that I always keep with me and began my routine of taking 20-30 mg of Hydrocortisone, but this time, I decided to take 50 mg because the dip had been so rapid and severe. Then, my experience became one of the scariest that I have had since being diagnosed with Addison's in 2001...I developed extreme brain-fog in the few minutes this all happened, while driving down Highway 59 toward Houston.

The rest of the events are shrouded in a thick mental fog that comes with a person's blood pressure sinking so low that oxygen to the brain is seriously reduced.

I either called or texted my husband with the message of, "Call me" as I was searching for a place to pull over to the right. Obsessively, I kept thinking, "Pull over to the right...stay right." I knew I needed to immediately let him know I was in trouble, even though Sgt. Dave was over an hour away, at work already. Turning around wasn't an option...I didn't have the thinking-power to even move out of the right lane. My husband called, I had him on speaker phone and tried to tell him that I was in trouble and trying to pull off the road, to the right.

Since I was on the highway through a rural area, I was terrified at being stuck somewhere "off the map" as I physically plummeted. My husband's voice was panicked, yet stern as he ordered me to, "Turn around! You are having a crisis and are slurring!"

All I could think was, "I can't even FIGURE OUT HOW to turn around...I will stay on this edge, and go slow until I can PULL OVER AND STOP in a SAFE SPOT."

With the little bit of brain power I had left, I felt the panic mounting inside of me. There was nowhere to pull off the road safely. Somehow, I KNEW to NOT STOP in the break-down lane; I wasn't even sure I would stay in the car or not stumble as things deteriorated as I lacked coherent ability to make decisions that were need to prevent me from being ran over by a big rig.

Of course, I continued to hit the button on my blood pressure cuff, which while on the phone with Sgt. Dave gave the next reading of 77/42, and I realized the search to find a safe zone in the middle of NOTHING was urgent. All of this happened within about a five minute time-frame, but it felt like an ETERNITY. I kept swallowing more HC pills as stress dosing and knew I was past the point of being able to self-inject, I was too weak and too far from being mentally aware enough to prepare and give an injection.

I then recall my car hitting the hard ridges that are built into road and realized I had been losing consciousness, and that's when I spotted a big sign in the sky that said, "Love's Truck Stop." The hard ridges jerked me out of my lack of consciousness...yes, the ridges work, and I felt as so relieved that a safe place was within sight! However, still on Highway 59, I prepared to turn right, off the highway as I waged a battle to keep looking in my mirrors to make sure no one was driving any where around me. I HAD to get off the road; I could NOT hurt anyone because of the sudden onset of an Addison's crisis. If I did cause someone to be hurt as I became sicker, I would not be able to live with myself.

How could this happen? How come there weren't more warning signs that could have prevented such an extremely rapid deterioration in my vitals? How come this had to happen while driving down a isolated stretch of Highway 59 as I was alone?

At this point, I was FIGHTING to stay conscious and had literally gobbled a HAND-FULL of steroids, which by the end of the day would total over 200 mg of Hydrocortisone, the most I have ever had to take in one day, and still, my blood pressure kept sinking.

With a bobbling head and eyes that were trying to refuse to stay open and taking great effort to see, I managed to pull into the truck stop parking lot. I pulled against the nearest curb, turned off the car (I think) as the phone lay on the console with the speaker phone still relaying the voice of my husband. I finally spoke, trying to tell him with a thick, uncontrollable tongue, that I was parked at Love's truck stop and was going to lie my head back and just rest a while.

I was wise enough to know I needed to obey my body.

Sgt. Dave was furious, but I did not have the ability to be concerned about his own panic as he hung up on me for being so angry that I wasn't doing what he wanted me to do. Frankly, his tantrum was not my concern, I had bigger things to worry about. With him off the phone, I had one less problem and could focus on myself...trying to figure this out.

The last thing I remember at that time was reaching to hit my door locks, not realizing the doors were already locked, I looked up to see the huge "Love's Truck Stop" sign directly over my front windshield and I actually giggled weakly while praying, "God, please don't let this be my last sight."

And I literally fell unconscious.

The shocking part to this was that once I regained consciousness, over 45 minutes had passed. I could not believe it. I don't even remember really if the car was turned off or still running. Being able to park was good enough for me.

I took my blood pressure and it was now 90/58. Better. But, best of all, I WOKE UP. I was ALIVE!

Taking MORE Hydrocortisone, I decided that my body must have been processing all the pills I had swallowed as I lie there unconscious, and they were finally working their way through my system. I considered going back home, but as my blood pressure continued to rise, I knew that I would return home to simply find myself with decent blood pressure as the worst had passed, and my determination to move forward was full of stubbornness.

My blood pressure went to about 110/78 and it held for about twenty minutes, so I decided to go on with my life. I also knew that after all the massive doses of Hydrocortisone had been taken, that I might have some high blood pressure, but that never happened.

Of course, everyone began eating Thanksgiving dinner because my little truck stop detour and my slowed pace added nearly two hours to my travel time. That was depressing to me because things went so wrong, then I began to realize that things actually went right...God helped me to be safe, for others to be safe, and for me to make it to a place that was not too scary to sit in my car alone while extremely vulnerable. I never expected to lose consciousness.

The drive within me to get to the Thanksgiving gathering was powerful. I was going to see both of my daughters, my son-in-law, and my grand-daughter among all the other family members I love so dearly.

My Uncle Billy, daughter Heather and grand-daughter, Coraline.
My sister is in the background looking like a super model!

Then, I was getting to see my Aunt and Uncle and their lovely new home, and my cousins I hadn't seen in well over ten years.

My beautiful sister, Robin, and my cousin, David.
When we are together, I still feel as if we are kids!

The first few miles back on the road were "test" miles, to make sure I was fully alert and capable of driving safely. I felt a life-time better, but I knew things were not right in my body, and I suspected the wild fluctuations to be directly related to my condition causing too much stress upon my body.

Stefie is giving me a sweet smile and my niece Shaye is
growing up too fast!

Also, I contemplated the reasoning for my meds taken in large doses for not kicking in as fast to get my blood pressure to an acceptable "low" range was explored. Obviously, my body was not absorbing the meds as it should have. That concerned me. One way to approach this problem, I believe, is to make sure I do not find myself without a ready-snack to take with the medications to help absorption. Usually, I have peanut butter crackers with me, but this time, I was out of luck and even though I was SO CLOSE to the truck stop shop, I was far too weak to try going inside. From now on, I will at least make myself a snack pack of Ritz Crackers with peanut butter before I get on the road.

I felt weak for the rest of the day, but everything was okay, other than my pride being wounded.

Determined to keep going, I had a wonderful time with my family, especially with my uncle who was justly proud to show off his AMAZING shop where he does woodworking projects above and beyond the norm.


I had so much fun. The two of us spent about an hour in his shop as I got the grand tour.


Since I took Shop in school, I really loved this experience.


My uncle is such an amazing man; it is wonderful to see him living a life of excellence and luxury.

My Uncle Billy's CNC machine - remarkable!

The downstairs part of his woodshop - tool zone.

He's also a perfectionist, which is evident as you see his two-story shop setup.


So, I got to spend my Thanksgiving going from being unconscious at a truck-stop to a family home that is worth well over a million dollars. Then I was blessed to get home safe after the festivities. It was quite a memorable day.


The day after Thanksgiving, the reality of the previous day hit me hard. I realized that my condition is more precarious than I had wanted to admit. Yes, I know it isn't good because of the level of pain and bleeding from a couple of places in my body that this causes, but I am accustomed to moving past the pains in life as much as possible or be controlled by it.

Still, I acknowledged that my health, especially the Addison's, is not stable. At least, not for now, especially due to the excessive pain my body is processing. After I have the surgery and get the uterus removed, I believe things will become more manageable. Until then, I am going to try to avoid lengthy car trips. But, I savor the time I had with family, especially with my Aunt Sheila.

Aunt Sheila...a woman who is easy to love and who loves her
family so easily.

On December 4th, I will have a final test conducted to determine a couple of other things for the surgeon to develop a surgical strategy. On that same day, we meet with the surgeon to discuss the details and to learn my surgery date; she already told me that it would go fast after the Thanksgiving holidays.

I am thankful that God put me under a sign of "Love" during one of the most difficult and scary times of my life with Addison's. I just never thought the love would be associated with a truck-stop in Texas. I will never see that truck-stop in the same way again...it has earned a special place in my heart.

Wednesday, October 22, 2014

# 146 - Is it the Addison's?

Having a disease, such as Addison's makes it extremely difficult to determine whether or not some health issues are being caused by Addison's or by another problem.

On and off this year, at the least, I have had constant battles with my kidneys. As I get into a significant kidney infection, I seem to get more than the back pain at the flanks, I also get a terrible body aching that cannot be described. It seems that the body aches are signifying that my body is not cleansing the toxins out of the system as it should because the kidneys are impaired.

Last week, after feeling miserable for a good amount of time, I again go to the doctor and discover that I have an "massive amount" of blood in my urine.

Right now, I am struggling because the infection or whatever is causing the kidney problems is now creating Addison's maintenance issues.

I cannot imagine that Addison's would cause my body to hurt this bad, pretty much 24/7. It does seem that something above and beyond Addison's is at serious play in my system. The massive amounts of blood in my urine are an indicator that my suspicion is true.

Unfortunately, the doctor here in Livingston has a staff that is consistently lagging behind in sending the doctor's orders to the diagnostic location...it took a total of five days for the doctor's office to even fax the doctor's orders for the ultrasound to the location that does the test. So, I could not even schedule the ultrasound since I was waiting for the doctor's office to do their part. I believe I will go see the doctor to simply discuss this issue with her, to bring it to her attention, especially since it is not the first time this has happened.

It disturbs me because the doctor ordered the ultrasound as a STAT test. Since the antibiotics that I began taking five days ago, directly after the doctor's appointment, has not helped at all...I am concerned.

For anyone who deals with any chronic medical issues, I am sure you understand that going to the doctor becomes drudgery. The THOUGHT of going to the doctor is highly bothersome to me, usually because I only go when things have become serious. I'm definitely not one to run to the doctor, unless there is a real problem.

And, right now, I've got a real problem on my hands.

I suppose that a few tests will help to rule out a blockage and then I will be also seeing a urologist to determine if there are other issues, but I feel as if things are dragging along. And I am in agony, to be honest, pure agony.

Today, I've been a ragdoll. Getting much out of me today is almost impossible. I've been trying to rest because the next few days are going to be jam-packed.

Tomorrow, I drive nearly two hours into the Bayside of Houston to stay the night with my sister so we can drive together to be with my dad the next morning since he will be having a stint put into his carotid artery for an 80% blockage they just discovered. He is acting as if it will be no big deal, but I get my stoicism from him in that he also doesn't go to the doctor until there is a clear and present issue that is not disappearing and is likely a real problem.


I am concerned for him...we will be there for him and ready to help him out so he can get home and resting. However, any time an artery is involved, there is added concern. I have had my share of surgeries, some directly involving arteries and others with the main goal of avoiding arteries at all costs. I just don't like having to deal with an artery or the spinal cord.

With my oldest daughter, Heather, at a party for a family friend
who just returned from duty in Afghanistan and my dad is giving
his great-grandbaby Coraline a kiss. She is a PawPaw gal!

However, I am so happy they discovered the blockage...it is very serious. I am praying the stint will be successful.

A wonderful motivator for me to cling to tomorrow is that it is my oldest daughter's 27th birthday! I cannot believe Heather is going to be 27!

Heather and Coraline...two sweet beauties!

I was 19 years old when I gave birth to her while living in Germany, and it seems like yesterday while also seeming, simultaneously, like a thousand years ago! I have been so blessed to see her grow to be a beautiful young woman and to have her give me my first grand-baby, Coraline. My son-in-law, Henry, is a good-hearted young man...my first "legal" son! These happenings keep me filled with joy in spite of hurdles.

Henry and my grand-baby, Coraline. I love both of them!

Then, I have great news...my youngest daughter is being inducted to the National Honor Society for graduates. She is getting her Master's Degree and will be having a ceremony this Sunday. Since she lives a few hours away and since her dad works weird days and weird hours, I will be traveling by myself to be with her for a couple of days and to attend the ceremony.

Stefanie on the day she earned her bachelor's degree from Texas State and
dunked herself with her class ring into the river! I took this photo as some
family members tried to talk her out of going through with this tradition,
and she is brave...SHE JUMPED IN THE RIVER! A priceless moment!


I am super excited about this event, but my body is struggling so much these past few months...at least I know the reason. We cannot be peeing huge amounts of blood without there being a serious problem present.

For now, I am simply trying to hang in there, but it is difficult. I would even consider going straight to the hospital to get better faster than later, especially since it is taking a toll on my Addison's maintenance. However, it seems that hospitals have such serious bacteria and other issues that I feel better at avoiding them at MOST all costs!

The private road down our acreage...too long with curves to photograph
its entire length, which is over a foot-ball field, but it makes for a
beautiful walk with the dogs.

Even with the agony I am experiencing, yesterday I went for a walk and made dinner and took care of home business, but today...RAGDOLL.

About a month ago, me with my first Grand-baby, Coraline.

Right now, my husband is being supportive. He knows I am suffering and he hates leaving me alone, but life dictates that I be a big girl! I assured him that the kidney pain is indeed a pain, but I am not in a state of disrepair as serious as is an Addisonian Crisis, so he needs to keep doing his normal thing and stick to his work schedule because next week might be a different story.

After all, I have so much going on around me that I can't hardly stop to think about my own situation; if the pain weren't so constant and intense, I would be completely distracted!

I am hoping next week will be better than this week. I always have hope...it will never come to an end, even at the end!

NOW, GO CONQUER!

Thursday, March 6, 2014

# 145 - Nature is Good

For about nine months we've been living in the country. The lifestyle is good for me. Well, with the exception of the cold weather which has been EXTREMELY difficult on my body, but coldness seems to be something we're all enduring to some extent or another. But, the country environment has been healing to me in many ways.

When I am having an "off" day, the country life helps me to better enjoy my surroundings than I had been able to do in the city. I needed a slower pace. Well, maybe not a "slower" pace, but a different kind of pace.


Life in the country is not without its difficulties and challenges, but the trade-off for the large dose of peace and to be in nature from the time I wake up until I go to sleep is exactly what I need. Listening to the birds in the morning and the crickets at night makes me smile, well, mostly.


Ever since I began my battles with Addison's, one of the ways I have been affected is that I felt the need for more space, and I needed more time in nature...I needed more time alone, yet I am NOT lonely. I wanted to be free of feeling as if I am display or some kind of guinea pig. I needed to step outside of my house and sit in the middle of nature, without a solicitor coming up to sell me something and without having to listen to the neighbor's dogs bark at me as I try to sit peacefully in my backyard and to get through a night without hearing the party next door.

External noises are fine, but getting a bit of space between me and that noise seemed to be imperative. I began to go all day without any sound, just the sound of life itself. Things changed for me.


Of course, we still have many fun times with family and friends, but on a day-to-day basis, I enjoy being in the forest.


Other times, I LOVE being with my first grand-baby...a precious baby girl named Coraline. She fills my heart with joy, as if I was a truck running on empty and she gives me long-lasting fuel each time I see her.


However, living in the forest, on a beginning farm means that each day offers something new. More than that, each day offers a bit of excitement and exploration. And I get to be around baby animals...that is awesome.


I guess if I had to explain how it feels to live in the country, I would have to say that being on this acreage puts me farther away from man-made life and closer to Heaven...kind of an in-between location that suits me, perfectly.


Most people living with a serious illness would rather live closer to city amenities, but I changed gears and went from being a full-blown city gal to running the other direction. Fortunately, my husband was ready to do the same.

Now, when he is home, he says it feels as if he is already on vacation. There is a longer commute, but the time home is savored.

Life is beautiful. Oh yes, there are struggles, more than I can say, but the overall take away is that life is incredible, always full of exciting twists and turns, and the glorious moments smother the bad. That's the bottom line.

And I leave you with this thought...

Monday, January 13, 2014

# 144 - Living Life!

First of all, I sincerely thank all of you who have been sending concerned emails about my lack of writing for this blog. I appreciate you reading and digesting my written words, for whatever they are worth.

In response, I am going to make a sincere effort to begin writing again on this blog, on a regular basis.

To be honest, I had to focus on other areas in my life because Addison's disease can tangle you in a web of challenges. For a while, I felt worn down and needed to escape from it, as much as I could, for a bit.

Also, we made a major move from the city to the country, selling our house that was about 3,000 square feet to move to the acreage we've owned since our daughters were young. The acreage is in the middle of rural Texas country.

I took this picture yesterday...I love the "yard."

We bought a Mac-Daddy RV to live in while we prepared the land to build a cabin. The problem is that I can't decide upon where to build the cabin. You can't change your mind once it is built, so I am taking my time with this decision.

Sgt. Dave using a machete to thin the area that will be
next to the cabin.

I enjoy the RV, but it's an RV. I figured it would take about a year to start building, and we have accomplished a great deal, but I am ready for the extended camping trip to approach an end.

I must say, this has been one of the most adventurous times of my life.

My niece, Shaye, on a visit with her cowboy boots.
She fits right in with our new environment.

My newest health battle has been news that I need a hysterectomy. Not such a big deal for a healthy patient, except that surgery always presents a reason for concern, especially when it is YOU having surgery. For a patient with Addison's disease, the most simplistic surgery is serious business. 

Since my mother died from breast cancer at 57 years of age and my father is again battling cancer that is genetic, I need to be pro-active with my health. After my dad's genetic testing, the oncologist told him to inform all three of us kids about the results so we could take preventative measures of our own.

Presently, my dad is battling Malignant Fibrous Histiocytoma. My mother had been tested by M.D. Anderson and the cancer was not a genetic variation, but my dad's genetic testing made him very sad. Of course, all of us have something awry in our body, whether we are aware of it, or not. But, since my father is adopted and never knew his birth family, the lack of medical history is problematic.

Here I am with my first grand-baby, Coraline and my grandmother.
My grand-mother is now a great-great-grandmother to Coraline.
In the back is my Uncle Billy, my oldest daughter - Heather, and
my father who is having to wear a medical mask that he pulled
down for this photo. That baby makes him a first time great-
grand-father. I treasure these moments.

After considering my parents' cancer history, my doctor order the Brach-Analysis test for me. I took the test a few weeks ago, and I have been waiting a long time for the results. Of course, the chain reaction of such results is both nerve-wracking and beneficial. I have two daughters, so if I show the gene for these familial cancers, then I will have to inform my daughters of their high-risk predisposition for cancer, as well as my sister.

A few weeks ago, here we are in Fort Worth. There's my daughter
Heather, me, my sister Robin, my youngest daughter Stefanie
and my youngest niece Shaye. We had a ball!

As for the needed hysterectomy, if I show a genetic predisposition for cancer, then the surgeon is likely to remove as much as possible during the hysterectomy to reduce my risk, especially since I have tumors in the uterus and in an ovary, most likely benign, but this area needs attention because the tumors have become large enough to create visible abdominal swelling, and according to my doctor, the swelling is equivalent to an early pregnancy belly.

We all have problems, but I don't like this new challenge. The health battles have been enormous and never-ending. It becomes tiring. However, I keep fighting back and doing all I can to see better days. But, let me get this straight, I still have INCREDIBLE days.

My brother, dad, me and my sister.
This was taken the week after Christmas.

Overall, I will most certainly feel better after surgery since the complications of this condition cause significant pain, swelling, and constant bleeding that leads to anemia. 

Anyway, I never stop LIVING. Life is to be LIVED! I break my days down into "moments." I might have bad "moments" in the morning, but the afternoon might be filled with GREAT "moments" and find me feeling great! So, I never say, "My day is ruined," or "This has been a bad day," because rarely is there a day without goodness. Besides, there is always something you can find to do that is enjoyable, even if your body is not cooperating fully.

Here I am playing the piano...something I love to do and that
gives me a sense of fulfillment, yet it takes little energy.

My quality of life is improved because of the move out of the city. It's been a challenge with MAJOR changes to our daily lives, but I savor this life on our rural acreage.

Taking a walk through the woods.

Going from the Greater Houston area to a home with no neighbors in sight is a big change. So many of our family and friends have been baffled by this deep desire to live in the country, especially with my health issues, but I am not a person who lets fear rule my days. If I am going to be sitting at home on a regular basis, I'd rather do that sitting in an environment that is soothing and fun.


Of course, I'm not able to get outside every day, but the time I am outdoors is filled with wonderful fun that feeds my spirit!


Yesterday, I planted seeds in pots so they can get a head-start for transplanting into the main vegetable garden. I played outside with the dogs, throwing the ball too many times to count. I hand-spread Rye seed over approximately three acres of land, and I enjoyed every step I took.


Every day is a new adventure. Granted, I might not feel too adventurous each day, but the adventure is eagerly waiting for me outside my front door, and that makes me feel great! For me, being in nature is my calling...it's free, it's beautiful, and it's ever-changing. Also, nature responds to our treatment...when nurtured, it gives you gifts, such as flowers or veggies.

All around me, I see and feel God's presence. I think that God is gracious to give us such free beauty to remind us that all things have a cycle...nothing stays the same. That proof can provide hope in every situation.


More than ever, I appreciate the forest, especially because of the extra stress in life.
So, I will again try to share both the good and the bad of life, which includes living compatibly with Addison's disease.

Monday, August 19, 2013

# 142 - A Condensed Life

It's been a while since I've written in this blog. Over the past few months we've been overwhelmed with moving from the city to the country. Our lives have drastically changed, for the better. However, the change has not come without huge sacrifices.


We sold our home in the Greater Houston area that was almost 3,000 square feet and came to the acreage we've owned since our kids were small, temporarily living in an RV until we can decide upon a homesite and finalize our house plans.

Each step along the way is tedious, expensive, hard-work, and nerve-wracking because we must make every little decision. In the city, every little thing is taken care of for you. But, that's also part of the big fun of living in the country, it's one adventure after another.


In Texas, it gets very hot in August. As for my Addison's disease management, that can be difficult. Since we've had back to back happenings for months that are highly stressful, it can take a toll. Last week, I fell down the stairs of our new deck that has been built against our RV. The pain that it caused from the bruise of my hip bone and spine became a problem for my Addison's --- round and round we go during times like these.

Increasing my Hydrocortisone dosages helped. Somewhat.

When I have things happen, such as this fall, I tend to withdraw and need more time to myself, as if I need to cope with my struggle, in privacy.


However, for some reason, I am going through a phase of needing extra solitude in my life. Perhaps it's because I have come to a close of raising two daughters --- twenty-five years of solid parental involvement wiped me out a tad. Even though the day to day parenting duties have faced, we have a lot of wonderful things happening right now...my niece came to stay for a week long visit with us in the country, my oldest daughter and her husband are expecting their first baby within days, which will be my first grandbaby,


and my youngest daughter just graduated from college on August 9th.


Life has been jam-packed with event after event for months.


I am so excited that my oldest daughter, Heather, is about to become a mother, but I do get this deep sadness at knowing the distance we live from each other will make seeing our her and our grandbaby more difficult.


...we all have our daily responsibilities and my husband's job is demanding. That's the way life goes.


And to be going through the pain that my fall down the stairs has caused makes me feel physically and emotionally drained. I'm a gal who pushes past the pain to get things done; I've been through some major physical ordeals that included some of the highest levels of pain a person can endure, but I still feel down and out when I have an added hurdle, such as this fall that is causing this nagging hip pain. I feel a bit bummed out because today it appears that I took a downturn into the land of hurt again; I am beginning to realize that my hip is more injured than I wanted to believe. It frustrates me.


Regardless, the excitement over all the changes in our lives at this time is immense, but the difficulty that comes with making a massive leap into country life is a definite stressor. And sadly, less than a month after our move to the peaceful country, my husband's 22 year old nephew was brutally murdered, on Father's Day. That tragedy, along with my dad's ongoing cancer battle that includes multiple rounds of chemo for a cancer that is known for unfavorable statistics has often found me fighting deep sadness.

In a direct effort to bring balance into my life and to push away the pain that life can bring, some evenings, if my husband is at work, I do whatever I can outside, usually something with my plants or with landscaping.


To get me going, I turn on some music. Our RV has a great outdoor speaker system, so I put on Country Classics and experience great nostalgia to go along with the making of a few new memories.


I listen to some of my favorite old country songs while I sing to the trees using a broom stick as a microphone to join Loretta Lynn, and I might even dance a bit on the deck. Mostly, I feel free and wonderful.


No matter what, I am still in disbelief that we actually left the city and moved to the rural country.


I will keep trying to enjoy and to savor every good moment that life can provide or that I can produce with a good attitude as I also confront hard things in life.

Sometimes we have to live on purpose --- not just wander through life, we have to do things on purpose to give us balance. I'm working on that a bit more right now. It's what we all must do, live as best we can, always trying to counteract the hard times with a bit of beauty and joy. Thank God that He gives me plenty of both beauty and joy to focus upon.